Micro-Cheating

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theblackswordsman's picture
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I would say most of that is true with some circumstantial exceptions.

 

Such as hiding "Some" feelings. For example it's a man's responsibility to make his wife feel like everything is ok sometimes when it's not. Like if a famine hits, and food will be less available. You can't tell her we're fucked and might die. But if it''s a relationship problem then yes it's best to dismantle it and talk it out.

 

A question I ask new women in my life is "How does your mother look at your father?"

 

If the answer is anything but "With admiration and respect." Then there may be a deeper problem than can be solved.

 

But yeah, pretty good tips.

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daftcunt's picture
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A question I ask a new woman in my life is "How does your mother look at your father?"

 

If the answer is anything but "Through the scope of a high caliber sniper rifle". Then there may be a deeper problem than can be solved.

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theblackswordsman's picture
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Ok, make that two acceptable answers ;)

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Ozmen's picture
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Sharing problems in your relationship with your girlfriends(or similar) is something normal that has been done, as far as I can tell, forever. How exactly is it microcheating when you're seeking validation from your peers? Because the peer is the companion, not the friends? I don't want my private life shared with others but that's not cheating, seeking the validation of your peers.

 

What is flirting? Is it listening to someone with patience and then responding to them, even emotionally if appropriate? That is, are normal social interactions where you are kind to another considered flirting?

 

Isolation, belittlement are cheating? Like literally taking my dick and shoving it in the asshole of another woman level of cheating? Ok ok they're the 'micro' version of cheating. *eyeroll*

 

So if I dress in suits for work related things but wear sweatpants at home I'm dressing more for others?

 

Is having your separate bank accounts 'hiding money'? If I don't give my wife the bank statement at the end of the month then aren't I hiding the money?

 

I got a feeling from this that we lack the language and possibly even the right way of thinking to do this relationhsip thing properly. Too many outside forcers trying to influence our decisions about what is appropriate for whom.

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