Do men have it easier?

sato's picture

Do men have it easier?

Makes a lot of good points and counter-points.

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theblackswordsman's picture

 If you are happy and can control your emotions it is better to be a man on every scale. You can breed until you die, you can fulfill a purpose that is greater than women AND be happy anyway, you can be admired for your merits and talents more readily. And whether you get ALOT of romantic attention from women or just a bit it is usually more genuine.

 The downside is for many men it is very difficult to control their emotions hence they get their hopes up about the "completion" of a specific goal. Which makes the lows from failure feel catastrophic.

 The statement "Men are born to fail" is quite insightful.

 The upside to that is we can ALWAYS try again!

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daftcunt's picture

The guy is annoying. 

If the modern feminists could only accept the genetical heritage men and women carry, which may or may not diminish further or even disappear in the future, then they would be much happier inside their own skin.

Applying double standards (as they do) in trying to tell us they are equal but still demanding special courtesy and women quota in responsible positions will not get us as a society anywhere.

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Where we get into trouble is trying use LOGIC to solve their emotional problems.

There are very good reasons why the girls fall for the bad boys that have no jobs crush beers all day and beat them when they talk back. Yet leave the nice guy provider in the dust for... You guessed it the bad boy.

Don't be weak. Do what YOU want to do for YOU. Don't beat women or mistreat them. And you're fine.

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sato's picture

interesting point about being happy inside their own skin. for years people have been noting that it's women who feel the most insecure about their appearance, and the existance of make-up makes that hard to refute. i think i might agree with you in that they feel more insecure about their non-physical attributes also. assuming i haven't misunderstood your point anyway.

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i agree we get in trouble for trying to fix their problems when really they just want to be comforted, but why should we? who's to say the way men deal with problems is wrong, or the way women deal with problems is wrong? men in general tend to work towards fewer problems, women in general tend to work for greater support when problems do arise. those are both good things, neither is better or worse, and we as a species are better off having both of those strengths rather than just deciding one way is better and all doing that, leaving no-one any good at the other.

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Us wanting to fix their problems is not wrong. However it is VERY IMPORTANT to remember 2. things. 1. Women are NOT attracted to the same things we are. 2. ATTRACTION IS NOT A CHOICE.

Women are attracted to POWER in ALL of it's forms.

The healthiest way to demonstrate this power is having power over YOURSELF.

When a woman does something irrational to you when everything SHOULD be fine, she is probing you for emotional weakness. Most of the time this happens BENEATH the THINKING mind. She doesn't know she is doing it. And when you fail these AKA Respond to her shit with ANYTHING but a "Frame change" "Sense of humor" or "Sarcasm" you FAIL and the NON NEGOTIABLE switch of attraction turns off.

The good news is. The words you say don't matter as long as she doesn't shake your POSITIVE and HAPPY emotional state.

So really the shit you respond with doesn't even have to make sense as long as your vibe and energy is fun and care free.

Also their REAL deepest fears are That you will become her slave over time. = You got soft and weak. And ABANDONMENT. If you are in the driver seat *Which you should be* Then leaving the house without a word for a day or kicking her out of yours BEFORE you respond to her shit, will change her attitude real fast. However the trick is you can't leave ANY clues you are bluffing. You have to go full force with your decision until SHE comes around and apologizes.

"But Sword what if she doesn't come around?" REPLACE that bitch!

If you EVER feel like you can't walk away. You are ALREADY FUCKED!

I have unwittingly said insensitive things in the past which pissed her off. Had her SCREAMING IN MY FACE.

The wrong way to deal with this: Back down, apologize too soon, shout back, try to make it stop in ANY way.

The RIGHT way to deal with this: Change the frame of the interaction which will change her thinking and change her mood, make her LAUGH, look her right in the eyes with a smile and let her scream about EVERYTHING from start to FINISH then ask her if she wants a hug. ;)

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Also as a side note. STOP GIVING A SHIT ABOUT WHAT FEMMENISTS THINK!

They EXCLUDED THEMSELVES from the BEST dick by saying stupid things!

BE THE BEST DICK INSTEAD! Rise above those cock starved babies and pound some smoother wetter pastures!

DIS FATTIES! BANG HOTTIES!

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Grothesk's picture

Words to live by.

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