Ok, So first thing you should do when you part ways, text your first name. That's it.
Go live your life.
A day or two later send a VALUE GIVING TEXT. That is always a statement about something awesome either about yourself, something you have done, something you are interested in, or something you have witnessed.
Go live your life.
If she responds with something relevant put her in a fun mood taking at least as long to send as she took to respond.
If she does not reply, or sends some bullshit like lol or haha.
Go live your life and collect more numbers.
Follow up on new leads.
A week or two later send another VALUE giving text.
Go live your life.
If her responses are better put her in fun mood, then check her availability and make date.
If her responses are non existant or still bullshit, she goes to the back of the line again.
DO NOT ask questions. Because that pressures her to answer. You want her honest desire, not forced desire. Get more creative about harvesting data from her.
DO NOT be boring. Meaning if you have boring hobbies, then you need to speak about them with PASSION and EXPRESSION. Talk about why you love your hobbies and how they make life beautiful. Not just what it is.
DO NOT be too serious. You are more easily manipulated when you are serious because you are trapped in a *Must win* mind set.
DO NOT try to be overtly sexual. It only works 10% of the time. Those odds are very poor.
DO NOT double text. Let at least week go by without a response, OR if you are living awesome, don't ever send another text, because you won't feel the need too.
DO NOT think too much. If you try to play her like a chess board she will fuck your mind up.
DO NOT chit chat over text. Make it clear when you get the number that your phone is for arranging plans. Ask if she agrees, accept nothing less then a resounding yes. If she says sure or yeah, ask her if that means yes. If she still drags her feet tell her don't worry about it and have a great evening. The only reason you are giving value texts is to guage her interest level and mood, without asking questions.
Finally on the date section. If she says she is available X day, then flakes and reschedules, tell her that day doesn't work and renegotiate a new day on YOUR terms.
If an arrangement can't be made, then do not suggest another day, but continue sprinkling value giving texts every now and again until she asks. No exceptions.
It is paramount for you to control the interaction, otherwise you will end up in a relationship that she runs.
You don't want an emotional person controlling your life.
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(Old Spike)
Ok, So first thing you should do when you part ways, text your first name. That's it.
Go live your life.
A day or two later send a VALUE GIVING TEXT. That is always a statement about something awesome either about yourself, something you have done, something you are interested in, or something you have witnessed.
Go live your life.
If she responds with something relevant put her in a fun mood taking at least as long to send as she took to respond.
If she does not reply, or sends some bullshit like lol or haha.
Go live your life and collect more numbers.
Follow up on new leads.
A week or two later send another VALUE giving text.
Go live your life.
If her responses are better put her in fun mood, then check her availability and make date.
If her responses are non existant or still bullshit, she goes to the back of the line again.
DO NOT ask questions. Because that pressures her to answer. You want her honest desire, not forced desire. Get more creative about harvesting data from her.
DO NOT be boring. Meaning if you have boring hobbies, then you need to speak about them with PASSION and EXPRESSION. Talk about why you love your hobbies and how they make life beautiful. Not just what it is.
DO NOT be too serious. You are more easily manipulated when you are serious because you are trapped in a *Must win* mind set.
DO NOT try to be overtly sexual. It only works 10% of the time. Those odds are very poor.
DO NOT double text. Let at least week go by without a response, OR if you are living awesome, don't ever send another text, because you won't feel the need too.
DO NOT think too much. If you try to play her like a chess board she will fuck your mind up.
DO NOT chit chat over text. Make it clear when you get the number that your phone is for arranging plans. Ask if she agrees, accept nothing less then a resounding yes. If she says sure or yeah, ask her if that means yes. If she still drags her feet tell her don't worry about it and have a great evening. The only reason you are giving value texts is to guage her interest level and mood, without asking questions.
Finally on the date section. If she says she is available X day, then flakes and reschedules, tell her that day doesn't work and renegotiate a new day on YOUR terms.
If an arrangement can't be made, then do not suggest another day, but continue sprinkling value giving texts every now and again until she asks. No exceptions.
It is paramount for you to control the interaction, otherwise you will end up in a relationship that she runs.
You don't want an emotional person controlling your life.
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